Fred’s Story - Nancy Housel
Wednesday, May 10th, 2006The weeks have passed and you are hot, tired and feeling like you haven’t made a difference at camp. Let me tell you a true story of a camper named Fred who attended a week of day camp.
Fred was 7 years old and had been adopted as a special needs child by a wonderful couple a couple years before coming to camp. The mother explained that he was very slow especially in physical development. He didn’t react well with other children, wouldn’t be able to sing songs or do the motions. He wouldn’t go in the water and wouldn’t play games as he wasn’t able to keep up with the other children. The Dr. told them not to expect much from him. My counselors and I prayed for Fred that week.
The first day I noticed that he didn’t seem extremely slow mentally. He watched the other children intently, but didn’t join in. I noticed that, although he didn’t sing, he tried to do the motions. That evening I asked the counselors to encourage him to join in, but not to force him. The next morning while waiting for all campers to arrive, he joined in a game of “Red light” and his counselors gave him much praise. Wednesday he went into the pool and after much coaxing played cookie machine and burst out laughing. By the end of the week he was singing songs while doing motions. He joined in all the games, and even played a part in the “Good Samaritan” skit for the parent program. After the program, Fred’s mother was sobbing. When I asked if I could help her, she explained that she had never seen Fred involved in activities like that. She said that from Tuesday on all he talked about was day camp. For the first time, he got up each morning, completely dressed himself, and was anxious to get to camp. Since the Dr. told the mother not to expect much developmental improvement, she was shocked at the improvements he accomplished at camp. She said it gave her courage to look beyond the Doctor’s diagnosis.
Sometimes we think we don’t make a difference, but a camper like Fred comes along needing someone to believe in him. Not only may you change his/her life, but that camper may change your life. You would be amazed at the campers you have touched with the Word of God, a smile, a kind word, or patience.
By Nancy Housel
